01/08/2026

"Look at yourself, which friends will you choose ...


 "Look at yourself,

which friends will you choose ...

because when you find yourself in difficulties,

you will run to them!!!”

 

When you choose a friend..

let him be in your life as a "brother",

because you will run to him!!!"

Friendship as the result of a healthy soul is sacred, pure, whole, faithful, stable, honest, courageous, true, eternal. Friendship is a virtue, because it is founded on ethics and good conduct.

Friendship as a virtue, is attracted by the similar, and rests on related virtues. It is a bond of two similar souls.

It is the result of a prudent soul and connects friends with deep love.

 

Friendship has a stable and uncompromising ethic. Friendship is a kind of moral pleasure that pleases the soul. Friendship always endures, sympathizing and supporting. Aristotle has said: “Friendship is a soul that dwells in two bodies.”

 

Friendship is stronger than kinship love, because kinship love is a work of necessity, but friendship is based on the will. Friendship dictates reverence for the sacred things of friends, purity in behavior, integrity in morals, faith in character, stability in decisions, sincerity in words, courage in saying what is right and beneficial and in speaking the truth.

 

Friendship is the support for the happiness of two good people, because only between good people can true friendship develop. Plato says: “Friendship is unity in favor of the good and just; the will for a common way of life, the same way of thinking and acting, a life with harmony and good mood so that there is unity, companionship in both pleasant and unpleasant things.”

 

There are three types of friendship; that which is based on virtue, that which is founded on interest, and that which exists out of habit. However, friendship for the sake of virtue is excellent, because it is strengthened by the virtue of love....

 

(Excerpt from “TO GNOTHI SAVTON. Texts of self-knowledge” by Saint Nektarios of Pentapolis, where he refers to and speaks about the importance of friendship....)

31/07/2026

About hate


“Do good those who hate you” Matthew 5:44

”If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. ”John 15:18

“But he who hates his brother is in darkness and walks in darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.” I John 2:11

“You shall not hate your brother in your heart” Leviticus 19:17

 “Whosoever hates his brother is a murderer; 1 John 3:15” because in his heart he desires to kill him, whose blood we know that he has certainly not shed among men with his own hand or with a weapon; yet, owing to his burst of anger, he is declared to be a murderer by God.” Saint Cassian the Roman

“It is a disease to let love cool down. You should never stop saying: "No matter how much you hate me, I will never stop loving you". Thus you banish the cooling of love.” Saint Chrysostom

“As we benefit ourselves when we love our fellow men, so we punish ourselves when we hate others.” Saint Chrysostom

“Do not hate, but love; nor did He merely command to love, but also to do good, as it follows, Do good to them which hate you. For they who pierce their own souls deserve tears and weeping, not curses. For nothing is more hateful than a cursing heart” Saint Chrysostom

Entrust your future to God’s providence.

 


“Be careful how each day passes.

Entrust your future to God’s providence.

God will help.

Whatever God’s will is, it will be done.

Do not think or burden your mind about the future.”

 

Saint Jerome of Aegina

29/07/2026

If someone does not receive Holy Communion constantly, he cannot defeat the enemies (demons), nor progress spiritually.


 If someone does not receive Holy Communion constantly, he cannot defeat the enemies (demons), nor progress spiritually.

I hear some say:

- I have received Holy Communion and I do not feel anything!

The changes that take place within us are slow and secret, because our faith is small.

The first thought that we will have, immediately after Holy Communion, will reveal what Grace we have received and what is the fruit of the greatest Gift on earth.

If the first thought that will sprout in the intellect is humble, is an acquisition of self-reproach, is the fruit of self-knowledge, then we have received Holy Communion well.

Otherwise, someone can receive Holy Communion, but Christ will immediately leave him.

When we receive Holy Communion, Christ does not go to the stomach, he goes to the soul... He nourishes the soul, which is graced, sanctified and deified.

This Grace of the Holy Spirit is then transmitted to all the cells of the body. Thus, first the soul receives Holy Communion, and then the body. That is, both the body and the soul are sanctified.

 

+ Elder Ephraim of the Skete of Saint Andrew

28/07/2026

Let yourself be persecuted, do not persecute…


 Let yourself be persecuted, do not persecute…

Let yourself be crucified, do not crucify…

Let yourself be wronged, do not do wrong…

Let yourself be slandered, do not slander...

Be kind, do not repay evil with evil…

Do not hate the sinner…

Remember that you too are a partaker of earthly nature, and be beneficial to all.

 

- Saint Isaac the Syrian

The voice of Satan and The voice of God


 The voice of Satan            The voice of God              

He creates obsessions       He calms down         

He is filled with worry     He comforts      

He condemns                       He checks in                  

He discourages                     He encourages         

He’s confusing                     He illuminates         

He’s pressing                        He guides               

He’s scary                              He reassures    

He rushes things                  He calms down

 

24/07/2026

Incense has blessing, it has grace, it has power against demons


 Incense has blessing, it has grace, it has power against demons, so use the incense and censer, cense there in the iconostasis, next to the lamp.

During the time of Prayer, morning and evening and noon, and when there is tension in the house - the house will change atmosphere, change colour, become fragrant, serious, peaceful, loving, and the souls will become rejuvenated.

I remember a child, a little boy who was 15 years old, when he saw his parents fighting he would immediately go and light incense and cense them. He would incense his dad and mom!

“Make peace”, he would tell them. “I am a child, what examples will I take from you? Make peace, dad and mom”. With the presence of our all Holy God, the Shelter of our Virgin Mary, the gentle fluttering of the angels, along with the incense in the house, clearly misunderstandings and disturbances disappear.

Temptations and demons have no place in this beautiful house. So, do not fail to incense your house, and your shop and your work if possible, and I will close with “Incense, incense, incense”.

While censing we should chant troparions, whatever we remember, and when we are incensed we should bow our heads and make the sign of the Cross.

Incense transforms the house into a Church at home.

And I repeat that it drives away demons and temptations.

The souls of all the relatives are filled with Divine Blessing through incense.

 

- D. Papadaki

23/07/2026

Elder,” he said, “the world is filled with evil. Everywhere I see injustice, lies, and darkness.


 Once a young man went to Saint Paisios very disappointed.

— “Elder,” he said, “the world is filled with evil. Everywhere I see injustice, lies, and darkness. What can I do on my own?”

The Saint did not answer him immediately.

That evening he took him to a small room. He closed the door and turned off the light. The room was plunged into absolute darkness.

— “Drive out the darkness,” he said.

The young man began to wave his hands, to blow, to look for a way to drive it away. No matter how hard he tried, the darkness remained.

Then the Saint lit a small candle.

Immediately the whole room was illuminated.

The Saint looked at him with love and said:

— “See? You don’t fight the darkness. You turn on the light. That’s how it is in life. Don’t constantly dwell on evil. Make sure you become light: with prayer, kindness, humility and love. A little light is enough to defeat a lot of darkness.”

The young man left the cell with tears in his eyes, having understood that the greatest change in the world begins in our own hearts.

Do not let evil disappoint you.

Be an example of love and kindness.

The light of Christ, no matter how small it may seem, is stronger than any darkness.

“Do not fight the darkness. Light the light of Christ within you and the darkness will go away by itself.”

-Saint Paisios

This too shall pass!

  


This too shall pass!

I will face the world with a smile, because everything is in reality temporary!

When sadness weighs on my heart, I will console myself by saying that this too shall pass!

When I am inflated with the joy of success, I will warn myself that this too shall pass!

When poverty crushes me, I will tell myself that this too shall pass!

When I am buried in riches, I will tell myself that this too shall pass!

Really, where is the one who built the pyramid? Isn’t he also buried under its stones? And won’t the pyramid be buried under the sand one day?

Since everything will pass, why should I worry today?

From the magazine “TA KRINA”

22/07/2026

For a barefoot man, happiness is a pair of shoes.

  


“For a barefoot man, happiness is a pair of shoes.

For someone who wears worn-out ones, it is a new pair.

For someone who has new ones, an even more beautiful pair.

But for someone who cannot walk, happiness is standing on his feet, barefoot or not.

Measure happiness by what you have, not by what you lose.”

In the last years, evil and heresy will have spread so much that the faithful will not find a priest


 In the last years, evil and heresy will have spread so much that the faithful will not find a priest and shepherd to protect them from error, and to advise them in salvation...

Then, the faithful will not be able to accept safe instructions from people, but their guide will be the writings of the Holy Fathers. Especially in this era, each believer will be responsible for the entire fullness of the Church...

+Saint John Maximovich (+02/07)

16/07/2026

Give the other a smile...


"You who are in the Monastery, when you approach your brother, you who are a husband, when you approach your wife, you who are a father, mother, when you approach your child... whatever you are going to say to him, whatever you are thinking of saying to him, say it, after first saying two words to him that will give him joy, comfort, a breath.

Make him say, I am relieved, I am glad! Make others boast of you, love you, jump for joy when they meet you.

Because all people in their lives, in their homes, in their bodies and in their souls have pain, illnesses, difficulties, suffering, and each one hides the pain in his secret pocket, in his heart, in his home, so that others do not know.

So I do not know what pain you have and you do not know what pain I have.

I can laugh and shout, play, but deep down I am hurting, and I laugh and shout, to cover up my sadness.

Therefore, give the other first a smile, a prayer.”

+Elder Emilian of Simonopetri.

13/07/2026

Smile

 


SMILE: A smile is a way to solve many problems.

SILENCE! But silence is the way to avoid many of them!

08/07/2026

Message of the day July 9, 2026


 Let yourself be persecuted, do not persecute...

Let yourself be crucified, do not crucify...

Let yourself be wronged, do not wrong...

Let yourself be slandered, do not slander...

Be kind and not harsh with evil.

Do not hate the sinner...

Remember that you too are a partaker of earthly nature and be of benefit to all.

Saint Isaac the Syrian

You will see...


 You will see...

You will see prostitutes become saints.

 You will see adulterous men become as gentle as lambs.

 You will see misers give away their possessions in charity.

 You will see murderers become monks. You will see vagrants shine like the sun. You will see liars, thieves, and robbers become ascetics. You will see men and women who have committed every kind of shameful deed change their lives—become holy.

But there is one thing you will not see—at least, not easily: A selfish person repent.

A selfish person will sooner destroy themselves, and those who love them, than admit they were wrong.

24/06/2026

Is War Permissible?


 The issue of self-defense and the protection of human life, especially in the event of invasion or attack, is one of the most sensitive and complex subjects in Christian thought. While the central message of the New Testament is love, forbearance, and peace, the Church has always recognized the necessity of protecting the innocent and defending one's homeland.

The following are the relevant references and theological perspectives arranged by category.

1. Old Testament

In the Old Testament, the concepts of self-defense and the defense of the community or nation against foreign invaders are strongly emphasized and explicitly permitted.

Exodus 22:2

There is a clear legal provision concerning self-defense during the night:

"If a thief is found breaking in and is struck so that he dies, there shall be no bloodguilt for him."

If a thief is caught breaking into a house at night and is struck and dies, the one who struck him is not considered guilty of murder, since the act is regarded as self-defense in circumstances where the danger cannot be clearly assessed.

Nehemiah 4:14

When the Jews were rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem and were threatened by hostile enemies, Nehemiah exhorted them:

"Fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your homes."

The Example of Abraham (Genesis 14)

When Abraham learned that his nephew Lot had been taken captive by invading kings, he armed his men, pursued the attackers, and rescued him. His action was later blessed by Melchizedek.

2. New Testament

The New Testament focuses primarily on spiritual life and enduring persecution for the sake of faith, but it does not abolish the responsibility to protect others.

Luke 22:36

Shortly before His arrest, Christ told His disciples:

 "...and let the one who has no sword sell his cloak and buy one."

Although many Church Fathers interpret this passage allegorically, referring to the spiritual trials that lay ahead, it nevertheless indicates that the possession of means of protection was not considered inherently forbidden in a hostile world.

John 15:13

The supreme expression of sacrificial love is found in Christ's words:

"Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends."

In the event of an invasion, the soldier or citizen who defends others does not fight out of hatred but out of love, seeking to protect women, children, and those who are helpless.

Romans 13:4

The Apostle Paul teaches that secular authority, including military and police institutions, is ordained by God for the preservation of good and the restraint of evil:

"For he is God's servant for your good... for he does not bear the sword in vain."

Civil authority is understood as a minister of God charged with maintaining justice and restraining wrongdoing.

3. Writings of the Church Fathers and Saints

The Church Fathers distinguished clearly between killing motivated by hatred or revenge and killing that occurs in time of war in defense of one's homeland and the vulnerable.

Saint Athanasius the Great

Perhaps the clearest statement preserved in the Church's tradition is:

"It is not lawful to kill indiscriminately; but to slay one's enemies in war is both lawful and worthy of praise."

Saint Athanasius explains that soldiers defending their country protect the freedom and bodily safety of their fellow citizens.

Saint Augustine

Saint Augustine formulated the theory of the Just War. He emphasized that resisting violent aggression can be a moral duty. If someone has the ability to prevent an innocent person from being harmed and refuses to act, he becomes, in a sense, complicit in the evil.

Saint Cyril (Mission to the Saracens)

When Muslims asked Saint Cyril why Christians fight if Christ commanded them to turn the other cheek, he replied:

"Christ commanded us to endure personal insults. Yet He also taught us to lay down our lives for our brethren. When you invade our country, you do not insult us personally; you take our brothers captive, destroy their families, and compel them to renounce their faith. Therefore, we defend ourselves."

Saint Paisios of Mount Athos

Saint Paisios, who served as a radio operator during his military service, would say:

"If someone comes to harm me personally, I ought, as a monk, to forgive him. But if he seeks to harm my country or my neighbour's family, I have a duty to take up arms and stop him, because this too is love for one's neighbour."

Saint Isidore of Pelusium (5th Century)

Saint Isidore, one of the Church's most distinguished theologians and letter writers, wrote concerning warfare:

"Not to wage war is better, but to fight is sometimes necessary, lest the innocent be slaughtered."

He explains that the purpose of the defending soldier is not destruction but the restraint of evil.

The question of whether a Christian may defend himself, even to the point of killing an attacker when his own life or that of his family is under immediate threat, is a delicate matter with profound moral and spiritual implications.

Orthodox tradition distinguishes between the calling of the monk, who is expected to embrace complete non-violence and imitate Christ's martyrdom, and that of the layperson, for whom the protection of life is regarded as a duty.

The following passages, canons, and examples from the lives of the saints shed further light on this issue.

Additional Testimonies

Exodus 21:12–13

The Law of Moses distinguishes premeditated murder from accidental killing or killing committed in circumstances of conflict or self-defense:

"But if he did not act intentionally, and God delivered him into his hand, I will appoint for you a place to which he may flee."

Thus, Scripture recognizes that not all killing carries the same degree of moral responsibility.

1 Timothy 5:8

The Apostle Paul teaches:

"But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."

Theological interpretation extends this duty not only to material support but also to the physical protection of one's family.

Saint John the Faster (7th Century), Canon 21

Saint John prescribes spiritual remedies for various sins and clarifies:

"Whoever kills in war, or while defending himself against robbers, or in some other similar manner, is not regarded as a murderer."

Saint John Climacus (6th Century)

Although writing primarily for monks, Saint John makes an important distinction concerning intention:

"It is one thing to defend oneself out of fear of death, and quite another to act out of hatred."

Defending oneself because one's life is threatened is fundamentally different from acting out of hatred or revenge. The former may be excusable; the latter is sinful.

12/06/2026

The message of the day


" Look behind you . . . and thank God!

Look ahead . . . and trust God!

Look around you . . . and serve God!

Look within yourself . . . and you will find God! "

09/06/2026

Forgiveness weighs as much as I love you.

 


Forgiveness weighs as much as I love you. And something else, when God hears forgiveness, he comes and when the devil hears forgiveness, he leaves. May you live together with God in all your years.

10/05/2026

Shame must exist, but before, not after sin.


 Shame must exist, but before, not after sin. To be ashamed to commit evil, not to be ashamed to confess evil. Repentance is expressed as a confession of sins, as a proclamation. Do not be ashamed to tell your sins. One day the revelation of our sins will take place. Either we will reveal them, ourselves, before a person, to the Spiritual One, or God will reveal them on that Day before all the Angels and people. If we are the first to accuse ourselves with Repentance, all our sins are eliminated and we are acquitted.

Elder Ephraim Philotheus († December 8, 2019) 

Saint Theophan the Recluse. On Mental Prayer.


 You wish to learn something about prayer. What could I tell you that you do not already know?

When one draws near to the Lord, one immediately feels the need to pray. Church hymns and prayer books help with this. However, as one prays, one realizes that one’s prayer is disrupted and various thoughts occupy the soul. Then a struggle is required.

The more one struggles to keep the mind focused, the purer the prayer becomes. The spiritual atmosphere is not completely purified unless the spiritual flame is kindled. This is a gift of divine Grace. When it is kindled, the incessant chatter of thoughts ceases. What happens to the soul is the same as what happened to the woman with the issue of blood as soon as she touched the Lord’s garment: “Her flow of blood ceased” (Luke 8:44). In this state, prayer tends to become uninterrupted, unceasing. Here, the prayer of Jesus is practiced systematically, the continuous repetition of “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me.” This is as far as one can go through one’s own effort. From here on, divine Grace intervenes more decisively.

Prayer is given by God and does not flow from the person’s mental disposition. The spirit of prayer enters within him and fills the innermost part of his heart. The soul then pours forth the prayer of its own accord. It is under the influence of the spirit of prayer. Here there are two stages:

In the first, the soul feels and discerns everything. It looks around, senses its condition, controls itself, and can even interrupt the visitation of the grace of the spirit of prayer.

In the second stage, as the Holy Fathers teach, and especially St. Isaac the Syrian, we have a completely different state. It is characterized as ecstasy or rapture. The soul, intoxicated by Divine Grace, ceases to perceive earthly and sensory things. It is unable to control itself or influence the state in which it finds itself.

The patristic texts mention that someone began praying at night, fell into this state, and came to in the morning. For some, this state was accompanied by a glow on the face or a radiance around them. For others, by levitation above the ground. The Apostle Paul, in this state, “ascended to the third heaven.” And the holy prophets conveyed God’s will in this manner. Marvel at the Lord’s mercy. One exerts a little effort, and to what heights one is deemed worthy to ascend! That is why we must encourage every brother: “Strive, it is worth the effort!”

“Never pray hastily. Pray with the mind and heart fully engaged in the meaning of the prayer. Prepare yourself before prayer by gathering your thoughts and striving with focused attention to stand before the Lord. A basic prerequisite for good prayer is repentance. We are all sinners, and God “will not despise a broken spirit, a broken and contrite heart.” In every prayer, remember the sins you have committed.

What am I trying to achieve through prayer? To warm the heart with love for God and to keep the sense of God’s presence alive. The Lord’s Prayer helps greatly in this: “Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me, a sinner.” Say this prayer often, until your tongue becomes accustomed to repeating it on its own. To make progress in prayer, one must strive to adorn one’s heart with all the virtues. Above all, with humility, repentance, and self-denial. God sees everything and hears everything. He knows all our secrets. That is why we must cleanse every stain from ourselves. And whenever something impure comes to our mind or heart, let us immediately cast it aside and immediately turn to prayer.”

Every turning of the mind and heart toward God is true prayer. If, while you are working, you remember God, that constitutes prayer. St. Basil asks the question: “How could the apostles pray without ceasing?” And he gives the answer: “In all their activities, their thoughts were on God, and they lived constantly devoted to Him. This inner disposition of theirs constituted unceasing prayer.”

You who live in the world must, on the one hand, remove every sinful thought from your heart and, on the other hand, dedicate all your activities to God. This reference to God transforms every action into prayer. The Holy Scriptures state that the blood of Abel cries out to God. In a similar way, deeds dedicated to God cry out to Him.

Once, they offered a monk some fine food. As soon as he took it, he said:

– “How awful it smells…”

They asked him:

– “How is that possible?”

And he explained to them that it had been sent by a person without a good disposition or a good life.

Every deed is imbued with the feelings with which it is performed. Those who have a pure heart can sense this. Just as flowers give off a fragrance, so do deeds done with good intentions. The fragrance of good deeds rises to heaven, just like incense.

Your trials have not ceased. Do you think God allows this in vain? He allows it because He loves you. Through your trials, He purifies you, making you shine like a diamond in the sun. He even smooths the path for you to the Kingdom of Heaven. The chariot by which one arrives there is patience. And patience can only be acquired through trials. “That is precisely why they are sent.”

“May the Lord bless your efforts toward unceasing prayer. It is an unbreakable spiritual law that God grants us whatever beneficial thing we ask of Him. Divine help is always ready to be given to us and is always near us. But we must ask for it. It is granted to us in abundance when there is no help to be found anywhere else and we turn to the Lord with all our hearts.

But as long as we rely proudly on our own human strength, the Lord does not intervene. It is as if He were saying:

– “You hope to succeed on your own. You believe in the idol of your own self. So wait…”

May the Lord grant us “a contrite spirit, a broken and humbled heart” (Ps. 50:19), so that we may always take refuge in Him.”

“The quality and quantity of our prayer reveal the state of our relationship with God and the level of our spiritual life. That is why we see saints beginning their prayer at sunset and continuing it all night long, until sunrise and even beyond. Their prayer lifts them up to the heavenly Father and the saints, who comfort and gladden them.”

“You desire to know mental prayer. You desire a good and wonderful work! However, it is difficult for anyone to progress in the prayer of Jesus unless they are accustomed to concentrating generally in every prayer. So follow this method: Focus your attention on the words and meanings of certain psalms or other short prayers that suit your inner state. Repeat them often with deep feeling, and intersperse the Jesus Prayer among them. Later, add invocations to the Most Holy Theotokos and the saints, as well as prayers for the living and the dead.” “The prayer ‘Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me’ is a powerful and effective weapon. And this is because the name of our Lord Jesus Christ is feared by the enemies of our salvation and blessed by the saints.”

“True prayer is a divine gift. Pray fervently to God to grant it to you. Coldness in prayer is the result of judgment, anger, and rage, worldly interests and preoccupations, carnal gratifications and pleasures… Guard yourselves against all these things, and it will subside.”

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